Flying with Kids: What to Know
Flying with kids doesn’t have to be a nightmare.
It just takes the right prep, the right mindset, and maybe a few snacks in your bra (you know what I mean, mama).
As a travel planner and mom of two, I’ve helped dozens of families prepare for their first flight — and survived many of my own with toddlers in tow. Whether you’re bringing a baby or a teen, here’s what you actually need to know before you go.
1. Book Smart from the Start
Choose your seats early — especially if you need to sit together.
Pick early morning flights when kids are calmer and delays are less common.
Flying with a lap infant on an international flight? Ask about a bassinet seat!
2. TSA Isn’t Out to Get You
Yes, you can bring formula, breastmilk, toddler drinks, and snacks — just let the agent know before they scan your bag.
✅ Pack them in a clear bag
✅ Expect separate screening
✅ Skip metal jewelry for quicker security.
You no longer have to remove your shoes through security!
3. Pack Your Carry-On Like a Pro
Here’s what to pack for each age group:
For Babies:
Diapers + wipes (double what you think you’ll need)
Bottles/formula or nursing cover
Pacifier + backup
Soft blanket + teether
Change of clothes for you and baby
For Toddlers & Preschoolers:
Headphones + tablet with downloaded shows
Stickers, mess-free markers, mini toys
Water bottle + easy snacks
Change of clothes + pull-ups (if needed)
For Big Kids & Teens:
Charging cord + power bank
Gum, snacks, book
Travel pillow or eye mask
Their own bag = a sense of independence
4. Don’t Expect a Nap (But Pack for One Anyway)
Even non-nappers might snooze midair. Bring a small pillow, blanket, or hooded sweatshirt. Add noise-canceling headphones for bonus comfort.
5. Mindset > Magic
You won’t get everything right — and you don’t need to.
If your baby cries, you’ll survive. So will everyone else.
If your toddler melts down, you’re still a good mom.
This isn’t the whole trip — it’s just the part that gets you there.
Let go of perfection. Choose presence instead.
Freebie: Plane Packing Checklist for Each Age Group
(Want a printable version of these lists? Grab the free download here.)
Need help planning your family’s next vacation — from flight to fireworks?
I’d love to help. You focus on the memories — I’ll take care of the logistics.
🌤 Sunshine for Your Soul
“He will be like a tree planted beside flowing streams that bears its fruit in its season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers.” — Psalm 1:3, CSB
Your peace, your pace, your presence — it all matters. Even here. Especially here. God grows good things in travel too.